meMoriEs....
jO and Paul are going to Paddy's.
it's probably the last time Paul goes to Paddy's for a loooong time.... he's returning to SG later this week.
i had wanted to suggest gg to Paddy's wiv jO earlier this morning, but decided against it when i knew Paul was gg. i tink its good for jO and Paul to go out tgt- jz the 2 of them =)
was talking wiv jO last nite while she did the dishes...
we were jz chatting about how Paul was gg back and how they shd spend more quality time tgt...
i'm suddenly reminded of how jOe and i used to be...
in the last few years of our r/s we kinda jz fell into a routine.... he'll come over after work and on wkends; we'll each be doing our on thing on the pc / lappie; he'll go home. fullstop.
we weren't dating dating anymore... we weren't talking talking anymore.... it was jz sad.........=( true we did stuff tgt like watch telly tgt, and eat tgt.... but, it jz wasn't the same anymore. there was no romance watsoeva...
mayb its jz me... but i cnt really accept tt kind of routined patterned in a r/s BEFORE marriage >.<
yea i noe when 2 ppl get married and start a family tt's wat happens most times neways... but tt's AFTER marriage! if a r/s falls into tt kinda pattern even before starting a family, wat's it gonna be like when they actually start one??
sad eh? we were once really happy tgt.... yea... once upon a time........ but then it jz kinda faded away.........
mayb i should hv made more effort huh? mayb i should hv been less stubborn.... mayb i should hv been more considerate? mayb i should hv initiated more "let's go out!" sessions.... mayb..... lots and lots of mayb...
but i guess its time to move on. let the good times we had be fond memories to look back on.... tt way, we can still be friends. yea........
it's probably the last time Paul goes to Paddy's for a loooong time.... he's returning to SG later this week.
i had wanted to suggest gg to Paddy's wiv jO earlier this morning, but decided against it when i knew Paul was gg. i tink its good for jO and Paul to go out tgt- jz the 2 of them =)
was talking wiv jO last nite while she did the dishes...
we were jz chatting about how Paul was gg back and how they shd spend more quality time tgt...
i'm suddenly reminded of how jOe and i used to be...
in the last few years of our r/s we kinda jz fell into a routine.... he'll come over after work and on wkends; we'll each be doing our on thing on the pc / lappie; he'll go home. fullstop.
we weren't dating dating anymore... we weren't talking talking anymore.... it was jz sad.........=( true we did stuff tgt like watch telly tgt, and eat tgt.... but, it jz wasn't the same anymore. there was no romance watsoeva...
mayb its jz me... but i cnt really accept tt kind of routined patterned in a r/s BEFORE marriage >.<
yea i noe when 2 ppl get married and start a family tt's wat happens most times neways... but tt's AFTER marriage! if a r/s falls into tt kinda pattern even before starting a family, wat's it gonna be like when they actually start one??
sad eh? we were once really happy tgt.... yea... once upon a time........ but then it jz kinda faded away.........
mayb i should hv made more effort huh? mayb i should hv been less stubborn.... mayb i should hv been more considerate? mayb i should hv initiated more "let's go out!" sessions.... mayb..... lots and lots of mayb...
but i guess its time to move on. let the good times we had be fond memories to look back on.... tt way, we can still be friends. yea........
posted by 'Lil tWin StaR at
12:55 pm
1 Comments:
Let bygones be bygones.. everyone that comes into our lives does so for a reason and when they have gotten the msg across...it's time they leave. It's just a matter of time. Learn the lesson they taught you and move on. One day , one great guy will come in and sweep you off your feet ..why? because u deserve nothing but the best...
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