Wedding-Related: ROM-moon

Sigh.
For awhile, i was really looking forward to doing a ROM-moon after our ROM (obviously. duh!), followed by the actual Honeymoon after the Church and Customary next year-end.
We had even discussed options and settled for:
Taiwan [by rail]. Wheeeeeeee!!! For ROM-moon.
Greece in the Summer of 2012 (about 6 months after everything is over in Nov 2011).
However, having thought through our finances......
It pains me to even write this down :( but i told the Boy the other day that we should probably save that (estimated) 4K we would have to spend on that Taiwan trip, and put that money to better use.
Argh!
Can't believe i not-so-willingly-but-really-no-choice-what-to-do-wtf said that to him.
And he agreed.
So... end of story.
No ROM-moon.
*Cries.